
Growing Together: The Journey of Followers and Authentic Connections
The cursor blinks, a relentless tiny pulse on the screen, mirroring the twitch in my left eye. Another 59 items shared. Mine, theirs, the collective digital dust of a thousand online closets, all swirling in the vast, indifferent current of the platform. My shoulders ache, not from lifting anything tangible, but from the invisible weight of endless clicking. This isn’t selling, is it? This feels… different. It feels like I’m running a digital broom across someone else’s floor, making sure their virtual storefront looks presentable, hoping someone will notice my tiny, meticulously arranged corner. And for what? So the platform continues to thrive? This relentless obligation, this daily ritual of digital upkeep, has settled deep into my routine, a silent, unacknowledged burden.
We wake up, many of us, with a list of tasks. Not tasks that build our unique brand, not tasks that innovate on our product line, or engage directly with our customers in meaningful, lasting ways. No. Our tasks are often dictated by the platform itself: share 99 items, follow 29 new users, relist 149 old items, send 39 offers. We do it, religiously, because we’ve been told this is the path to visibility, to sales, to *success*. But success for whom?
I remember chatting with Sophie A. once, a submarine cook I met during a particularly dreary coastal assignment. She described her daily routine in the galley – every pan scoured, every surface wiped down to a gleaming, sanitised perfection. Not because it directly contributed to the submarine’s navigation or attack capabilities, but because a clean, orderly kitchen was essential for the crew’s morale and the smooth operation of the boat. She was paid for it, a respectable $49,009 a year, for essentially maintaining a tiny, vital ecosystem within a larger, moving vessel. She wasn’t building the submarine; she was maintaining it. And there was honour in that, a clear contract of labour for compensation.
Contrast that with what we do here. We’re meticulously ‘sharing’ 59 items, relisting 149 more, all to appease an algorithm that demands constant activity, not necessarily genuine commerce. We’re doing Sophie’s job, but without the clear contract, without the direct compensation. We’re keeping the platform’s engines humming, making sure the digital deck is scrubbed clean, so *their* ship can sail smoothly, carrying *their* paying advertisers and high-volume sellers. We’re performing uncompensated platform maintenance, under the guise of ‘building our own business.’
I still perform some of these tasks, of course, because complete disengagement often leads to invisibility. The critical shift, though, is in understanding *why* I’m doing them, and meticulously limiting *how much* time I surrender to them. The intent has flipped: no longer a belief in their intrinsic value for *my* growth, but a strategic concession to maintain a baseline visibility, a begrudging nod to the algorithm’s demands. This subtle, unannounced shift in perspective has been more liberating than any complete abstention could have been.
This isn’t to say platforms are inherently evil. They provide the marketplace, the infrastructure. But the subtle shift lies in where the actual *work* falls. When a platform’s success hinges on the collective, often mindless, activity of its users, and that activity isn’t directly compensated or genuinely revenue-generating for the user, a fundamental imbalance emerges. We become, in essence, the unpaid janitorial staff, making the venue attractive for others, while our own storefronts might gather dust if we don’t also perform the maintenance tasks. We polish their chrome, arrange their displays, welcome their guests – all for the privilege of setting up a tiny, often overlooked, kiosk in the corner.
This isn’t building a business; it’s sweeping floors for someone else’s.
The line blurs, doesn’t it? The difference between a true business owner-someone who invests time, capital, and creativity into building an asset that directly generates value for *them*-and a platform janitor, diligently tidying up the digital aisles, becomes increasingly hard to discern. A business owner creates systems, scales operations, leverages assets, and constantly seeks ways to maximize their own intellectual property and time. A janitor performs repetitive tasks, maintaining someone else’s infrastructure, without a stake in its ownership or a direct share in its profits. And while many of us aspire to be the former, the daily grind of platform demands often pushes us inexorably towards the latter, subtly eroding our entrepreneurial spirit by forcing us into a cycle of reactive, rather than proactive, labour.
Scales, Innovates, Owns
Reactive, Unpaid Labor
Consider the mental cost. That feeling of always being behind, of having an endless list of low-value, high-frequency tasks staring at you. It’s draining. It sucks the creative energy out of you, leaving little room for actual strategic thinking or true innovation. How many times have I put off designing a new graphic, or researching a new sourcing strategy, because I had 299 shares to complete, or 99 new listings to draft, just to hit the daily quota the gurus promise will bring success? Too many times to count. This isn’t a complaint about hard work; it’s a critique of misdirected effort.
The solution isn’t to abandon these platforms entirely; for many, they are the only viable path to market. The solution, rather, lies in a radical re-evaluation of where our energy goes. We need to identify which tasks genuinely contribute to *our* bottom line, *our* brand equity, *our* unique value proposition, and which are simply keeping the platform’s lights on. It’s about being ruthlessly efficient with the ‘janitorial’ tasks, minimizing their impact on our precious time, and redirecting that reclaimed energy towards true entrepreneurial endeavours.
This is where automation becomes not just a convenience, but a strategic imperative. If a task is repetitive, low-skill, and primarily serves the platform’s algorithmic demands, it’s a candidate for outsourcing, or, even better, automation. Why spend 49 minutes every day manually sharing when a tool can do it in 9 seconds, freeing you up to source a truly unique item, or craft a compelling story for your next listing, or even just take a break and recharge? Reclaiming this time isn’t a luxury; it’s a necessity for any serious business owner. It transforms that platform janitor into a CEO, albeit one who still occasionally picks up a digital broom, but with an intelligent, strategic approach.
And it’s not just about sharing. It’s about identifying all those micro-tasks that consume your day. The relisting, the offer-sending, the frantic rush to ‘follow’ back every new follower. These are the equivalent of polishing door handles that aren’t even on your own house. We need to critically ask: “Is this task building *my* business, or is it merely contributing to the platform’s user engagement metrics?” If it’s the latter, we need to find a smarter, faster, more hands-off way to get it done. This might mean investing $19 here, or $39 there, in a tool that handles the busywork. This small investment frees up hours, literally hundreds of hours a year, that can be channeled into tasks with a 99% higher return on *your* business.
I once missed a crucial bus by ten seconds. The feeling of watching it pull away, knowing my meticulously planned schedule was now derailed, was profound. It wasn’t just the bus; it was the ripple effect: a late meeting, a missed opportunity, a domino cascade of minor inconveniences. That’s how I now view wasted time on these janitorial tasks. Every minute spent on something that doesn’t directly build my unique business is a bus missed, an opportunity lost, a delay in reaching my actual destination.
Schedule Derailed
Opportunity Lost
The real game changer comes when you shift your mindset from being a passive participant in the platform’s ecosystem to an active strategist, leveraging its tools for *your* benefit. This means understanding that while you might need to engage in certain activities to maintain visibility, the goal is to do so with the absolute minimum personal investment possible. The platform wants your engagement; fine, give it to them, but automate the dull, repetitive parts. Use your human creativity and strategic thinking for the parts that *only you* can do.
This critical distinction separates those who will perpetually toil in the digital aisles from those who will genuinely build thriving enterprises. It’s about recognizing the implicit contract: the platform provides the space, you provide the product and *some* engagement. But it’s not a contract for you to become their unpaid labour force, dedicating hours to tasks that yield minimal direct return for you. It’s about protecting your entrepreneurial energy, your time, your true value. The smart business owner understands this, and actively seeks ways to free themselves from the shackles of digital janitorial duties, often through intelligent automation.
Intelligent Automation
Delegate the busywork. Focus on what truly matters.
Delegate Tasks with Closet Assistant
This isn’t about being lazy; it’s about being smart. It’s about leveraging technology to serve *your* goals, not just the platform’s. It’s about understanding that your most valuable asset isn’t your product, or even your listings, but your time and your creative energy. And those are finite resources that demand protection.
So, are you a business owner, strategically building an asset that serves your vision, or are you an exceptionally diligent platform janitor, ensuring someone else’s enterprise continues to gleam? The choice, ultimately, is in how you choose to spend your most precious, unrecoverable resource: your time.
Time
Your Most Precious Asset