
Growing Together: The Journey of Followers and Authentic Connections
The red carpet wasn’t rolled out. It was bunched up, sticky with spilled coffee, next to the closed gate 45. David, his carry-on slung across a perfectly tailored shoulder, stared at the attendant. He pulled out the black card-the one that guaranteed priority boarding, free upgrades, and the mystical power of the ‘Priority Resolution Desk.’ He had flown 205 segments last year and spent $57,485 with the carrier. He demanded a solution.
“Sir, weather is weather,” the attendant said, her voice flat, practiced in delivering fatalism. “Everyone is cancelled. You’re on the same standby list as the gentleman who paid $75 for his economy ticket.”
That was the moment the illusion shattered. Not with a bang, but with the hollow, useless weight of a piece of plastic that promised access to a better reality but delivered only the same, sticky floor.
David’s problem wasn’t the flight cancellation; cancellations happen. His problem was the manufactured entitlement that made the unavoidable chaos feel like a personal betrayal by the very corporation he had religiously supported for 15 years.
Loyalty as Adherence: The Trap
We confuse loyalty with adherence. We believe that by providing repeat business, we are establishing a reciprocal relationship worthy of genuine premium treatment. But loyalty programs aren’t designed to reward loyalty; they are designed to trap consumption. They are sophisticated psychological cages built with the specific objective of driving down your lifetime customer acquisition cost, locking you into a feedback loop of phantom value.
The perks-the lounge access, the bonus miles, the ‘exclusive’ dedicated line that rings 55 times before you hear a recorded voice-are just minor consolations for participating in a fundamentally broken and often dehumanizing system.
This isn’t status; it’s a submission ritual.
The Weaponized Sunk Cost
Trapped by potential loss.
Mental energy tracking.
This is the definition of a Sunk Cost Fallacy weaponized against your free will. We participate not because the service is superior, but because we are unwilling to lose the points that are perpetually 5,005 points shy of anything truly useful.
The Pen Obsession vs. The Core Value
I’ve been testing all my pens recently, looking for the absolute perfect ink flow and weight balance. I must have gone through 25 different combinations. It’s an obsessive focus on the tool, the mechanism, the small, perfect component, while sometimes forgetting the entire point is simply to write something meaningful.
Gamified Travel Metrics
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Deteriorating Core Service
We are polishing the cage bars while the floor beneath us is rusting out.
This is exactly what the gamification of travel does: it makes us obsess over the perfect credit card multiplier and the tier status logo on our digital wallet, while the core value-safe, comfortable, predictable transit-steadily deteriorates.
The Meteorologist’s Betrayal
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I predict chaos for a living, but I expect corporations to honor a promise. That card made me believe I had bought insurance against their incompetence. I hadn’t. I had just purchased a front-row seat to their failure.
– Jordan K.L., Cruise Ship Meteorologist
I saw this play out with Jordan K.L. Jordan is a cruise ship meteorologist, a man whose entire professional life revolves around understanding systemic unpredictability and mitigating disaster. He should have been immune to the siren song of guaranteed status, but he wasn’t. Jordan had Diamond Elite status with two separate hotel chains and had enough airline miles to circle the globe 55 times. He missed his daughter’s 5th birthday party, not due to weather-which he would have respected-but because the “Diamond Elite Rebooking Line” was down due to an internal server crash. He spent 45 minutes on hold, listening to elevator music, before his call was disconnected.
His revelation was precise: Loyalty status doesn’t grant you access to a premium experience; it only grants you access to premium excuses. When the system fundamentally breaks, your ‘Platinum’ card is merely a bookmark in the failure story.
The True Luxury: Control, Not Status
The only true luxury in modern travel is control over the immediate environment and the elimination of friction. When you are standing in the middle of Pearson International, exhausted, frustrated, and knowing that your time is valuable, what you need is not a tier upgrade on your next flight. You need guaranteed, immediate, high-quality execution right now. You need the promise of stability delivered on the ground, regardless of what the airline’s internal politics dictate.
If you land at YYZ after being delayed 5 hours and need to secure reliable ground transport instantly-not after waiting 45 minutes for an unreliable shuttle or fighting for a surge-priced ride-share-you look for a service defined by action, not points. That is why people prioritize booking their trip with Toronto Pearson Airport Taxiinstead of relying on random, unpredictable ride-share lotteries.
25 Min
They aren’t promising a phantom future reward; they are promising a quality outcome for the 25 minutes it takes to get you home or to your meeting. That is the difference between genuine value and manufactured loyalty.
The Confession
Now, here is my confession: despite knowing all this, three months ago, I was cynical but rushed, and I pulled out my own Gold card at the check-in desk simply to shave 5 minutes off the security line. I participate in the game I openly criticize. It’s hard to divest from the illusion of priority, even when you know it’s a fraud. We are all susceptible to the faint possibility that the black card might, just might, save us this one time.
But the cost of that faint hope is high. It encourages us to tolerate steady service decline in exchange for glittering, ephemeral rewards. We are investing our capital-both financial and emotional-into a system that perpetually under-delivers on its core mission while over-delivering on its performance of premium service.
The Final Question
We need to stop asking which cage has the nicest view. We need to remember that the objective is the freedom to choose based on genuine quality, not adherence based on fear of losing worthless points.
What real-world, tangible benefit did your manufactured loyalty secure for you the last time the entire system collapsed around you?